When you're happy, father is your good friend who play with you.
When you're sad, father is the harbor to protect you.
However, sometimes, father disappears.
When he disappears, maybe he just wants to release pressure in the gym, the lonely study and the isolated driving cabin so as to avoid impacting family.
How do you interprete the love of father?
5 employees of GONVVAMA gave their answer as below by telling their stories.
I was too excited to sleep when i heard that my wife was pregnant. On the night when my wife gave birth to baby, i couldn't fall into sleep too. When the baby was born, I was so happy but also stressful.
When my kid got into middle school, I told him to make good plan for study and be self-disciplined. The answer from my kid is that as a grown-up, I should take care of my study by myself. please don't worry about that. I was so touched in that moment as I felt that he's truly a grown-up.
In my mind, father's love represents responsibility for the family and the job. And try to exert good influence on the next generation with his serious and responsible attitude and behavior, so as to protect the family.
I have two kids. It was my first time being a father when my boy was born. it's a very special experience. The happiness that I exprienced was even greater than the one from my wedding, which was really out of my control.
I had an urge to tell the world that "I have a son, I have a kid". I just wanted to yell. However, I calmed myself down and just shared it on my Moment, and shared with my relatives and friends. Words really can't describe that feeling.
My younger daugther who's 2 years and 3months' old, always know that the one who's opening the door is her father whenver i go back home. The first thing that she always do is taking my slipper for me while keeping calling daddy. I was really moved by this.
I was not aware of the loving-kindness of parents, and the responsibility of father until I have my own kid. For me, I think the love of parent is letting kid and family feel safe.
When My kid was born, I was in the countryside, I was so nervous. At that time, the mood which dominated me was the respect to female. Giving birth to a new life is truly hard. I could not calm down for a long time.
I am not only a father but also a son. When I was a kid, I thought that father likes a mountain to protect the family. The love of father means bringing up us and ensuring a stable life for us. When I was turned to a father, I came to know that it's just one part of father's love. I should do more than that.
My son and I got along with each other like friends. We can have heart-to-heart talk. We can share whatever in our mind. What I told him the most frequently is how to behave himself, and what's his dream. I told him if you work hard now, even though you failed, you'll not regret. Just as an old saying that I always told him"those who can not reach target even with all efforts can have no regret" . He couldn't agree with this idea more.
I recalled that in the afternoon of one spring festival, he asked me to play basketball with him. After negotiation, I spent the whole afternoon in playing with him. After dinner, my wife asked me to wash the dishes. My son said that my father was so tired after playing basketball with me for the full afternoon. Let me do this for him. I was so moved by the truth that my kid can understand his parents now.
The first time when I saw my baby from the delivery room, I was so happy, and excited and the most important, very nervous. I was not fully prepared for being a father.
when my kid lurched up to me when he started to learn walking, and when my kid called the first daddy, I was so touched.
Father is not as careful as mother. They are not good at expressing their feeling. However, father will protect the family with his strong shoulder.
it was in the afternoon of Nov. 17th, 2011, my father and I was waiting outside of the delivery room. after around 1 hour waiting, my mother went to check the inpatient ward, and I was sitting alone outside of the delivery room. Suddently the door was opened, two nurses came out of the room, one of whom carried my baby, who has red cheek, and eyes were not opened yet. I was so excited and nervous. I carried him to take a series of check up and left his footprint on the birth certificate.
Last year when I was busy at work, one day i worked with my laptop until late night. Suddently my kid stood up from the bed and thumbed on my back. He told me that it's already late night, you should have went to bed. He was only 9 years old by that time. I was so surprise that he can say such thing at his age. It was very warm.
I think father should act like a umbrella to protect the family from wind, rain and cold. Being a father is not easy, which is consists of 90% of hardship and 10% of joy.
